Poor self-esteem
I was so excited since a month ago about cutting my hair, but just two comments from my parents stopped me from doing it and I got really mad at myself. Does this mean I was actually unsure, or just that I have a poor self-esteem ?
Didi thinks that there is no reason to get mad at yourself - it's perfectly normal for parents to have some influence over their kids, even adult children! Parental influence is fine, as long as the influence is out of love, not fear of rejection. If you find that you are too easily swayed by the opinion of others, practice becoming independent by slowly making more and more decisions for yourself - but also choose your fights wisely!
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